Fisherman’s Knot

Around the turn of the nineteenth century, an art form arose from the ranks of deep-water sailors. That art form was knotting. Sailors used rope to create knots that were anywhere from simple to elaborate. Some knots were purely for practical use and other knots were created for decorative use. Some knots were used to signify meaning. One knot that arose during this time period that was heavily laden with meaning was the True Lover’s Knot.

The true lover’s knot is a simple and clear knot, implying its forthright goal. It is made up of two overhand knots, linked together, much like the “true lovers” are in their hearts. A deep-water sailor would tie the knot loosely and send it to his intended back home. Upon receiving it, the intended could:

  • Untie it. – Meaning the sailor shouldn’t show his face around the next time he was in port.
  • Send it back leaving it tied loosely, the way she received it. – Meaning the sailor would be welcomed home, but he better be on his best behavior.
  • Tighten the knot before returning it. – Meaning the sailor should hurry home.

The two cords represent your individual life paths. The action of fastening your pieces together, represents the present; the moment when you join your two lives into one common purpose.

The completed knot represents your future, secure in the knowledge your relationship will continue to be strong despite the inevitable challenges and changes life brings.

Although the fisherman’s knot is one of the simplest to tie, it is also one of the sturdiest. As stress is applied, the knot becomes ever stronger.

As you pull on the rope, you will see it strengthen under pressure while still the individual cords to be seen. Let the strength of this knot, formed of your love, ever be a symbol of the strength of your union.